Two blogs in two days, my!
A lot of the previous post still holds. Things are going up and down and down and a little up a bit at the minute. I thought of a wonderful graphical way of representing it, and should I manage to get hold of the graphics software licence that I need for my project, I know just the function to represent it! (This, anyone?)
Anyhow, I was sitting in Techno Caf’ earlier (which for those of you who don’t know it alas does not serve food. However it does have desks with infuriating fixed seating with networked laptops, and is generally a nice place to sit and eat lunch and talk and work without feeling that you’re getting on anyone’s nerves), and browsing the internet because work Was Not Happening, and came across this article, the main point of my post.
Read it, yes?
From a thoroughly selfish, and actually maybe not so selfish point of view, I’d be sad if gift giving stopped altogether. A well thought-out gift is wonderful, both to give and to receive, and without wanting to go all pretending-to-be-a-sociology-student on you, I do think that gift giving plays a very significant part in human relationships.
I just do despair at the amount of commercialist tat at Christmas, though, and the number of presents which must be bought simply for the sake of it. What’s the point? You spend the money. They don’t want it, or certainly for no longer than a novelty hit anyway. If they’re a conscientious soul then some of the unwanted gifts might make their way to the charity shop to be bought for a cause by somebody who actually does want them, but mostly they just sit around being things to be had for the sake of having things, and the world gets fuller and fuller of things but we still feel the need to buy more but social graces demand that a gift is a gift, irrespective of its contents or consequences.
I’m not saying that I’m not going to buy anything this year, and I don’t pretend that all of my gifts will be just perfect for whoever it is that I’m buying them for. But I have already bought one gift in a charity shop, and I have a few people for who I plan to buy a chicken, or a hygiene kit. Maybe even a Glonk!
I have a single quotation on my Facebook profile. It was said by Charles Spurgeon and is this: “It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy, that makes happiness”


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